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Holiday Gift Guide Part 2: For The Girl Whose Style Icon Is Aeon Flux

We all dream of kickin' ass and takin' names — whether it's as Catwoman, Lara Croft, Aeon Flux, La Femme Nikita or Fox (Angelina Jolie's character in the band-of-assassins flick, Wanted). And, of course, part of these fantasies infiltrate our fashion and beauty sensibilities, as we gravitate towards all-back wardrobes, tons of sleek leather, thick chains, smokey eyes, and studded cuffs, belts, and bags. If you're shopping for a family member or friend with a dark, slightly goth, rocker-influenced, daring, and aggressive yet luxurious sense of style, take a look at some gift ideas that would top her very own "most wanted" list.

DANNIJO Tali Cuff, $345. Available at Dannijo.com

When it comes to jewelry, an Aeon Flux type of gal will opt for something strong but slightly sinister -- such as this tall, oxidized, silver-plated cuff from Dannijo (one of my absolute favorite jewelry lines), which is covered in Swarovski crystals in black, clear, rose and purple hues.

 

Dolce Vita Flash Bootie, $189.95. Visit Endless.com

When stylish females get ready to rumble, they have to put on the proper footwear — which, apparently, involves black leather boots, preferably with platforms, spiked heels, or chain embellishments (think of the fight scenes in the film version of Charlie's Angels). These Dolce Vita booties feature thick, gold chains for an old-school hip-hop flavor that adds yet another bit of toughness to the design.

Anna Sheffield Edith Rope Link Ring, $736. Available at AnnaSheffield.com

Bad girls (or crime-fighting good girls) always stock up on knuckle rings, chains, and ropes — just in case any skirmishes arise. This Anna Sheffield ring has the movement of a real-life rope being twisted, turned, and made to move like a venomous snake ready to attack its prey.

Qi Cashmere Give Back Sweater, $370. Available at QiCashmereShop.com

No girl can wear black all the time (hey, even Angelina throws in some color from time to time). Add some whimsy to the wardrobe of the urban warrior in your life with this comfy cashmere and wool graphic sweater. It kind of reminds me of Jenny Humphrey's style on Gossip Girl -- edgy and downtown chic.

 

Zoya Matte Velvet Loredana Polish, $7. Visit ArtofBeauty.com

The Mrs. Smith in your life isn't particularly keen on technicolor nails. When this gal gets a manicure, she keeps her nails short and opts for a dark, sobering polish, such as this steely gray, which has an impeccable matte finish.

Ali Ro Sequin Boyfriend Blazer, $325. Available at Big Drop stores. Visit BigDropNYC.com for info.

Remember Alicia Keys' assassin character in Smokin' Aces, Georgia Sykes? Well, if there's one fashion lesson we've learned from female assassins and action stars, it's this: both your work clothes and your off-duty clothes, need to be edgy, figure-hugging, and glam. Pair Ali Ro's sequin blazer with some liquid black leggings, tailored trousers or ruched black pants, and come-hither pumps, and you've got yourself a red carpet ready Angelina Jolie or Victoria Beckham look — and, in case you haven't noticed, both ladies have a "killer" sense of style.

 

OTTE Fingerless Chain Gloves, $125. Visit OTTEny.com

This lady approaches fashion like a Mission Impossible assignment could arise at any moment — and, in order to properly execute it, she'll need to keep those fingers free. Fingerless gloves, then, are the way to go — besides, ever since the Michael Jackson "Bad" video (RIP to the King of Pop), they've been synonymous with coolness.

Suzi Roher Style #5465 Belt, $505. Available at SuziRoher.com

The "Bad" video comes to mind yet again as I regard this wide belt from Suzi Roher, which features: a strand of square, pyramid shaped, metal studs; a second strand of opaque stones and domed, pearl-like metal shapes;  a third strand of dog tag-shaped metallic plates with flowers etched on them; an a final strand of domed, pearly metal studs. How can you be hard-edged without the proper hardware?

 
Paige Novick Neptune Cuff, $460. Available at Zoe in Brooklyn, NY and ShopZoeOnline.com. For more information, visit PaigeNovick.com.

If you saw someone wearing this cuff, with its elaborate, interlocking chain strands, would you want to aggravate them? Enough said! Perfect jewelry choice for an in-your-face look.

DSquared2 DQ0031-01A Sunglasses, $395. Available at select Saks Fifth Avenue locations.

To create the perfect air of mystery, an Aeon Flux-influenced lady needs some vamp-y dark shades. These DSquared2 sunglasses, with their black acrylic frames and golden arms and bridge, strike the perfect balance between sinister and chic.

Hayden-Harnett Farrow Wide Cuff in Grape, $144. Visit HaydenHarnett.com

This cuff's purple hue is a nice change from all the black, and its cool, gray-ish undertones help to bring out the metallic vertical strips, which have a nice rigged edge thanks to the miniature screw details along the corners.

Rock & Republic Nivalla Shoulder Tote, $305. Available at RevolveClothing.com

A foxy urban warrior is not unlike a Girl Scout in that she needs to be prepared for any situation that may arise — and that means packing her handbag with more than just the bare necessities. A roomy bag, then, is key if she's gonna survive in the concrete jungle, and this Rock & Republic tote will have her more prepared than Dora with her Backpack.

Profound Beauty Arctic Straight Kit, $49. Available at ProfoundBeauty.com

Most female assassin characters wear their hair pin-straight, with choppy bangs and blunt edges. Nikita? Check. Aeon Flux? Check. This 3-piece kit will help you achieve this look. The Profound Beauty HUSH Time-Out Treatment helps to smooth the hair out and eliminate any existing frizz, while the STYLIST Linear Serum will protect your hair from any hot tools and keep it straight and sleek. Finally, the ATMOSPHERE Arctic Chill compresses hair fibers, reducing overall volume, for a very controlled look.

Jee Vice Witty Sunglasses in Black with Grey to Rose Fade Lenses, $300. Available at JeeVice.com

Perfect for going incognito, the Jee Vice Witty shades create a dramatic look with the black frames and the grayish rose-tinted lenses. Remember: mystery is key to pulling off any Aeon Flux-influenced look!

NYX Cosmetics Smokey Look Kit, $8. Available at NYXcosmetics.com

Can you imagine the X-Men's Storm wearing rosy pastels on her lids? Uhm, no. It's all about smoky eyes — and this kit makes it a breeze to pull off the look, with various gradations of gray, black, white, and silver. The kit also comes with two lipgloss hues in a pale pink and a peachy nude, to help you balance out the heavier makeup along the eye area.

ABS One Shoulder Knit Dress dress, $196. Available at ChickDowntown.com

This dress just screams danger — from its curve-hugging fit, to the one-shoulder silhouette that plays up your collarbones and muscular arms, to the liquid look of the black material. It's like Nikita's trademark dress but with a much more modern sensibility.

 

Kimberly Baker Daria Earrings, $165. Visit KimberlyBaker.com

From the pebbled silver backdrop to the sightly amorphous golden drops arranged vertically along the teardrop-shape, these two-toned earrings have a medieval vibe to them that makes them all the more intriguing.

LNA Black Zipper Leggings, $99. Available at ChickDowntown.com

Any Aeon Flux-esque female must be able to crawl, creep, climb, pounce, kick, crouch, and run with agility, flexibility and grace. Any pants that might constrict her movements, then, are simply unacceptable. With LNA's black leggings, she'll be able to perform any acrobatic feat — and the zipper detailing will keep her sense of style unscathed.

Paige Novick Clara Earrings, $425. Available at The Gallerie in Aspen, CO.

These earrings look like gorgeous meteorite fragments or shattered pieces of mirrored glass protruding out of jagged rocks — they're just out-of-this-world gorgeous!

Ariel Gordon Stack House Ring, $225. Available at ArielGordonJewelry.com

This woman isn't one for subtleties — and neither is her jewelry. Even when shopping for a more "sensible" piece, this woman wants it to pack some "pow!" and this Ariel Gordon ring manages to do precisely that, with six stacked bands and a strip along the side decorated with circular onyx stones.

 

Treesje Jovi Cross Body, $368. Available at RevolveClothing.com

This busy girl needs to always keep her arms free, and a fanny pack is way too frumpy for her. So why not gift her with a cross body bag that fuses together style and substance? With its multiple zippers and stud details, the Treesje Jovi bag is function at its finest. 

 

Sephora Complete Starter Brush Set, $45. Available a Sephora.com

Pulling off those smoky eyes is no easy feat, my friends. To get the look right, you need the appropriate brushes for the job. Fortunately, Sephora's Complete Starter Brush Set includes everything a gal needs to put her best face forward: Powder Blush, Stippling brush (to diffuse powder and create a more eve finish), Concealer brush, Fan brush (to apply just a touch of bronzer or blush); Eyeshadow brush, Angled Eyeshadow brush (to get right in that crease), Smudge Brush (so you can diffuse eyeliner and create a sultry smokey eye), a Lip Liner, a Pointed Liner (for use with gel or liquid eyeliners), and a Brow Comb/Brush.

 

Pretty Little Thing Mix Metal Earrings, $78, and Mix Metal Medium Necklace, $185. Visit PLTNYC.com

I always joke that I'm the Puerto Rican queen of sauciness, but jewelry designer Lirany Vasquez might have me beat! The woman behind the amazin'-mazin' (word to Kanye) line Pretty Little Thing just unveiled a new collection, Urban Safari, that features all the necessary accoutrements for shielding your warrior self in the most exquisite of armor.

 

Kimberly Baker Bianca Ring, $150. Available at KimberlyBaker.com

Though it looks like a double-finger ring, Kimberly Baker's Bianca ring is just one sassy single lady (cue Beyoncé song). It's amazing how far a single line of pyramid-shaped studs will do, isn't it?

glo Skincare Metallic gloEYE Pencil Trio, $22. Visit gloSkincare.com

Any urban warrior loves steel, iron, and any other metals she encounters. So why not add a bit of that sheen to her eyes with the gloEye Pencil Trio? These miniature liners make for a perfect stocking stuffer.

Dannijo Biker Cuff, $275 each. Available at Dannijo.com

They might be called "Biker Cuffs", but these Dannijo bracelets are way too fly for a Sons of Anarchy episode. But they definite work for someone like Charli Baltimore (Geena Davis' character in The Long Kiss Goodnight, not the washed-up female rapper).

Bare Minerals Lustworthy Lips & Lashes, $15. Available at Beauty.com

What man doesn't like a woman who can dominate him a bit? And if that lady can bat her lashes and pucker her lips seductively, well, she'll have everyone wrapped around her fierce little finger.

 

Curations With Stefani Greenfield Studded Tote/Hobo, $115. Visit HSN.com

Zippers, studs and drawstrings -- need I say more? Didn't think so!

Zina Beverly Hills Dune Bracelet, $135. Available at ZinaBeverlyHills.com

The "Dune" name seems appropriate for this bracelet, which has a slightly weathered, armor-like look that makes it worthy of a scene on Mad Max: Beyond Thunderdome.  

Dannijo Chanterilli Necklace, $675. Visit Dannijo.com

Being a true femme fatale means knowing how to navigate through the most tangled of webs and embracing chaos as needed. Celebrate life's disheveled, rock-n-roll entropy with Dannijo's Chanterilli necklace.

 

Sebastian Micky Green Gift Set, $45. Available at SebastianProfessional.com

When they're not going for pin-straight hair, femme fatales go to the other extreme, opting for tons of volume a la Aunty Entity. This limited-edition kit will help you pull off the look thanks to products like the Microweb Fiber, an elastic texturizer that adds movement to the hair, as well as a moisturizing shampoo and conditioner and a limited-edition T-shirt designed by pop singer Micky Green.

 

Larkspur & Hawk "Such Is Life" Ring in 22K Gold and Silver with Pink Pavé Diamonds and Lilac Enamel, $4125. Available by special order only. Visit LarkspurAndHawk.com

Part of this femme's strength comes from an understanding that life is mysterious and full of surprises. A ring bearing the words "Such Is Life," then, seems like an appropriate gift for this no-nonsense gal.

 Sally XL Scarf in Black 100% Cotton Jersey with Hand Painted White Design, $95. Available at SLoveNYC.com

Hey, even Aeon Flux get a little chilly in the winter time. Give the daring damsel in your life an extra-long black scarf to match her leather jackets, black sweaters and leggings.

 

Badgley Mischka for HSN American Glamour Beauty Faceted Round Ring, $69. Available at HSN.com

Black is the color of choice for any night watch woman. Give your vigilante vixen a bold statement ring made entirely of black crystals.

 

Pixi by Petra Smoky Eye Creator, $30. Available at Target.com

This affordable set allows you to create an updated take on the smoky eye, with a double-sided eyeshadow brush, black gel liner, volumizing mascara, and an eyeshadow quad that includes a midnight blue, metallic amethyst hie, an olive brass color, and a dark brown shade.

Christian Siriano for Payless Geneva Front Zip Boots, $49.95. Available at Payless.com

If the zipper running along the front of this boot isn't enough of a reason to adore it, then check the coquettish peep toe. Plus, the synthetic leather packs as much shine as Catwoman's jumpsuit.

 

Jee Vice Dyslexic Brown Corduroy Sunglasses, $260. Visit JeeVice.com

The brown stripes along the frame create an optical illusion that mimics the texture of corduroy, while the oversize, square shape is reminiscent of military eye shields.

 

Avon Kiss Lock Ruffle Clutch, $9.99. Available at Avon.com

The ruffles may seem a bit cha-cha for the Aeon Flux-inspired gal, but the faux croc and deep dark color add an enigmatic feel perfect for those evenings when she has to do some mingling in black tie.

 

Love Rocks NY Crack: Double Gold Ring, $800. Visit LoveRocksNY.com

For style Queen Bees, a double finger ring is akin to a championship ring. Without it, you're just not certified. And, of course, it has to be unique and draw eyes to it. This golden Love Rocks NY features a squiggly, graph-like line that hits all the right peaks.

Mighty Fine Blondie Rockin Tee, $29. Available at BoutiqueToYou.com

Like Dylan, Drew Barrymore's character in Charlie's Angels, the kickass chick in your life will likely enjoy sporting some rock-flavored tees during her down time. And who could be more worthy of a T-shirt than the risk-taking, trendsetting Blondie?
 

Anna Sheffield Emma Drop Necklace, $195. Available at AnnaSheffield.com

Doesn't that blue drop look like the type of crystal ball that movie characters touch in order to conjure up lightning storms and such? Hence its coolness.

DVD Rack -- Nip/Tuck Season 5 Part 2

Ahhh, I remember the days when I couldn't get enough of Nip/Tuck. Season after season, plastic surgeons Christian Troy and Sean McNamara spent their days making others share their obsession with beauty, sculpting and chiseling patients according to their specified notions of physical perfection — all the while conducting themselves in a morally questionable manner. As best friends and colleagues, Sean and Christian have competed for everything: professional acclaim, fame, women (most notably, Julia, Sean's ex-wife, who mothered Christian's baby after hooking up with him while engaged to Sean), money, control over their business, and more. And while Christian was typically unapologetic about his lascivious, manipulative, and often cruel and pathological behavior, Sean stood as the voice of reason, the stern, responsible, grounded half of the duo. Of course, as the series unfolded, Sean found himself behaving in as deplorable a manner as Christian, the man whose behavior he so often questioned. But that's the beauty of the show — all the characters are damaged and flawed, capable of both the kindest and cruelest of acts. No amount of surgery can heal their emotional and mental wounds, and the more the characters strive for perfection rather than come to terms with their humanity, the more they fall short.

Over the years, the deranged story lines and sinister, soap opera-like dynamics have been part of the series' charm. Sean discovered that Matt, his teenage son, was actually Christian's biological son. Matt fell in love with a woman he later discovered was born a man. Sean was attacked by a masked slasher who brutalized the Miami area. There's been no shortage of outlandish but somehow delicious plots. Still, despite the far-fetched nature of so many of these story lines, we could suspend belief and merely enjoy the ride. That is, until Season 4, when Julia started gallivanting with her midget nanny, Christian fell for a woman involved in the organ harvesting trade, and Kimber and Matt decided to wed. At that point, the series felt like it was starting to spin out of control, moving too deep into the surreal realm that had once surrounded (without permeating) the show.

For Season 5, the show's writers brought in some fresh characters and a different setting in hopes of infusing some new life into the show. Season 5, then, finds Sean and Christian relocating to Los Angeles and attempting to reach the same level of success in a much more saturated market, where plastic surgeons abound. After months of slow business, they meet and charm a Hollywood publicist, who books them a consulting gig on a TV show centered on a plastic surgeon. A guest appearance lands Sean a recurring role in the TV drama, transforming him into a star. During this time, Julia visits from New York — but, this time, she brought along her lover Olivia (played by Portia DeRossi). Yes, apparently, the ever experimental Julia is now a lesbian. Go figure.

The first half of Season 5 mostly focuses on Sean: how fame makes him increasingly self-absorbed, his reaction to Julia's lesbianism, his lustful relationship with a manipulative young girl who winds up being Olivia's daughter, and his entanglement with a psychotic agent who winds up being a stalker. Christian reignites his flame with Julia but, beyond that, he isn't given too many juicy plot lines this season — a darned shame. Still, the first half of Season 5 manages to rise above Season 4 and reignite some of the spark in the series — particularly thanks to the plot involving Olivia's conniving daughter, who excels at playing the villain role .

Unfortunately, the second half of Season 5 isn't quite as dynamic — in fact, it's been the worst string of episodes in Nip/Tuck history. The story lines aren't just far-fetched — they're stale, morose, somber and depressing. Sean becomes involved with a new anesthesiologist with a dark side and tries to explore being more of a daredevil (which even looks ridiculous given his age and personality). Now back to full-fledged bitch mode, Kimber tries to get her infant daughter plastic surgery so as to land her more showbiz gigs. And worst of all, Christian discovers he has terminal breast cancer.

Christian's illness is the central plot element this season, but it feels like a weak attempt to draw sympathy from viewers. After all, how could they possibly kill Christian off and continue the series? What would the show be without Christian? Out of the two main characters, Christian has always been the more fascinating, charismatic one. It's his twisted genius that propels the show forward. There's no pizazz without Christian's antics. Audiences want to see Christian Troy bedding women and shuddering at the mere thought of commitment, then aching for a life partner when loneliness seeps in. They want to see him be cruel and selfish, then show a compassionate, vulnerable side when least expected. Landing him in a bed for most of the season hardly seems like a smart move.

It' no surprise, then, that Nip/Tuck will soon be canceled. After all, the show's writers seem to have written themselves into a corner out of which they simply can't escape. It's time to tuck Nip/Tuck away rather than let its quality drop any further.

Nip/Tuck Season 5 Part 2, $39.98. Buy for $24.99 at Amazon.com

Win a "Sex Drive: Unrated and Cream-Filled" Special Edition DVD

Those of you who have been loyal readers of SickaThanAverage.com have probably noticed that, as we've picked up steam, we've begun conducting some fantastic giveaways for you fashionable, entertainment-loving gals.

Which is why I'm thrilled to be announcing this new giveaway contest, courtesy of Summit Entertainment, in which one lucky reader will win her very own Sex Drive: Unrated and Cream-filled 2-Disc Special Edition DVD.

The hilarious film, which hit stores today (Feb. 24th), centers on Ian (played by Josh Zuckerman), a teenager who drives 800 miles in the hope of losing his virginity to a hot girl he met online. His sex-crazed friend Lance (Clark Duke) and best girlfriend Felicia (Amanda Crew) tag along for the ride, which quickly swerves out of control, with more unexpected twists and turns than your ordinary road trip. The 2-disc DVD includes both the theatrical and unrated versions of the film, as well as audio commentary with the director, writer and producer, and several mini features.

To enter, all you have to do is send an e-mail with three bits of trivia about lead actor Josh Zuckerman. The person with the most interesting trivia bits wins! Please note than any trivia/info submitted should be verifiable and that STA is not interested in any salacious or rumor-based information — we're interested in solid facts about this up-and-coming actor's previous roles, hobbies, etc.

The deadline for entries is March 23rd. Good luck!!!

Valentine's Day Gift Guide: Even Better Than The First Time

Gals, do you still need to buy a Valentine's Day gift for your best friend, mom or sister (or maybe for yourself... hey, I'm all about self-indulgence!)? Were you still looking for suggestions, even after last week's extravaganza? Guys, are you still scratching your heads (receding hairlines and all), trying to figure out the perfect present for the women in your lives? Stop stressing and peep this guide to all things necessary to spark a Love Revolution (word to Lenny Kravitz).
 
Fleur D'Amour by Sylvie Beljanski, $60. Visit FleurDAmourBySylvieBeljanski.com

Top notes of bergamot and bourgeons de cassis capture the senses, leading the way for this romantic fragrance's floral heart (middle notes include lily, jasmine, peony and rose), and the dry-down consists of amber, musk, sandalwood and vanilla for a layered scent that's feminine but soft, ethereal and exciting, like a shiver running down your spine.

Larkspur & Hawk Large Anne earrings, $2925. Visit LarkspurAndHawk.com

Inspired by a pair of earrings worn by English Queen Anne (the last of the Stuart Monarchs) in the 18th century, these 1" x 1" earrings feature faceted topaz stones, a ruby red foil and 14k gold settings. If these are any indication, that Anne had some impeccable taste.

Shane & Shawn "Sarah" Shoe, $255. Available at Shane & Shawn (238 Mulberry Street, NYC; 212.965.1633).

I don't know if this shoe is that into me, but I'm definitely into it — yes, I'm jonesin' hard over these Shane & Shawn patent leather pumps. When set against the dominant, vivacious red hue, that snakeskin black heel creates the sexiest of contrasts. Can I ask a shoe to be my Valentine?

 

Bing Bang by Anna Sheffield Candy Heart Earrings, $88. Visit AnnaSheffield.com

Anna Sheffield never ceases to amaze me. She always manages to add a tough, urban sensibility to even the prissiest of objects and motifs. I mean, clearly, Sheffield isn't the type of girl to put little hearts above her "i"s (and, for the record, neither am I), so when she includes hearts in her designs, she gives them a 3D makeover, adds an enigmatic purple and turns the whole thing into a rock-n-roll masterpiece.

 

Clinique Love Long Last Glosswear Set, $25. Visit Nordstrom.com or Clinique.com

Guys, don't cry in my soup about the price of Valentine's Day gifts when there's something as amazing as this Clinique set up for grabs. Packaged in a clear, heart-shaped box, this set includes four new shades of Clinique's famous Long Last Glosswear lip glosses (which are phenomenal). What girl wouldn't appreciate this gesture?

 

Susan Hanover (PRODUCT) RED Special Edition "Cuff for Africa," $125. Visit SusanHanoverDesigns.com

This year, for the very first time, designer Susan Hanover is joining GAP, Hallmark, Emporio Armani, Apple, and a host of other companies as a Product (Red) partner (round of applause). Her limited edition collection consists of four designs and 50% of proceeds go to the Global Fund. This particular cuff features two red stones inspired by the colors of the South African landscape.

 
Platt Boutique Jewelry Yellow Diamond Heart Necklace, price upon request. Visit PlattBoutiqueJewelry.com

Since 2005, siblings Larry Platt and Natasha Tsimmerman have been charming audiences with their unique selection of vintage, estate and one-of-a-kind pieces scouted from all over the world. This princess-like heart pendant, with its multi-faceted smokey topaz center and gold filigree exterior, is just one of the jewels in their crown.

 

Kidrobot Love & Hate Lil Klub Tote, $108. Visit Kidrobot.com

 Ahh, Kidrobot. As a psychotic, frenzied toy collector (yes, I have a problem), I'd be quite satisfied with getting the green Spray Can Munny charm as a V-Day gift. But I realize I'm in the minority here, so I bring you this clever tote, which features the word "Love" on one side and "Hate" on the other. It's a pretty great gift for your temperamental sister or best friend -- hey, she can let the world know her mood just by the side of the purse she exposes to the world!

Timex Women's Elegant (T2M832) Watch, $100. Visit Timex.com

Sometimes less IS more. Though it doesn't have the bells and whistles of other watches, there's something so quaint and lovable about this Timex piece. With its powder pink leather strap and pearlescent pink dial, it manages to be feminine without being haughty or overly delicate. Can't you just picture Molly Ringwald wearing this in Sixteen Candles?

Harajuku Lovers "Love," $30 for 0.33 oz. bottle. Available at Sephora.com

As if that hairdo isn't enough of a reason to cherish this PYT, Love also smells like a bed of roses — well, a bed of roses, bergamot, pink pomelo, Egyptian jasmine, peony and vanilla orchid.

Spa Sister Absolute Night Luxury Kit, $30. Visit Target.com or Amazon.com

Ahhh, the spa. We'd all love to check into a four-star spa for a weekend of deep tissue massages and seaweed wraps but, with the recession in full effect, cutting corners is key. So why not indulge in some spa-like treatments at home? Featuring a comfy pair of slippers, nail file, pumice stone, lavender foot butter, bath salts and lip balm, this lovely Spa Sister set includes everything you need to get those feet smooth, that tense body relaxed, and those cracked lips nourished and healthy.

 

BeautyBlender Valentine Duo, $29.95. Visit BeautyBlender.net

This tear-shaped makeup applicator is every cosmetics-obsessed gal's dream tool. The sponge-like consistency makes it absorb any necessary concealer, power or foundation, while the malleable shape allows you to reach those tricky nooks and crannies around the eyes and nose.

 

Cole Haan Huarache Bag charm, $75. Visit ColeHaan.com

A funky charm can spice up even the most dowdy purse, and this satchel-shaped Cole Haan piece is just the ticket.

bobe Bath Essentials Liquid Love Roll-On Perfume, $6.72. Visit BobeBathEssentials.com

Not only does Bobe Bath Essentials offer some of the most soothing, frothy, delicious body butters out there, but its roll-on fragrances are as addictive as Lay's potato chips (you know, a in you can't just eat one!). The newest scent, Liquid Love, features strong cherry notes — perfect for snuggling with your cherry pie.

oh...DEER! Tart Patent & Sequins Mary Jane, $119.95. Available at DSW.com

Coquettish and sly, these high-heeled Mary Jane pumps feature showgirl-like sassy sequins, a coy glossy pink hue, and sexy but subtle cut-outs.

 

b.tempt'd by Wacoal Demi Desire Contour Bra, $40, and Demi Desire Thong with Garter Straps, $20. Visit BareNecesities.com

This Valentine's Day, make sure there's sex in the champagne room (and in every other room!) with this saucy lingerie set from Wacoal's b.tempt'd line. The white lace and bow accents add a sweet, innocent flair to the otherwise sexy, stark black — and, with those garter belts, you'll have any man on his knees!

 

Miriam Haskell Handwired Glass Pearls and Silver Plated Chain Earrings, $380. Visit MiriamHaskell.com

These intricately handwired peal earrings ooze luxury and romanticism — so much so that they feel like ancient treasures from a bygone era of flourishing creativity. Here's to Haskell ushering in the jewelry world's very own Renaissance.

Tom Ford Black Orchid Body Cream, $85. Available at Bloomingdales.com

This body cream smells so delicious, you'll want to reach for the nearest spoon (but please don't do so! You don't want to be dialing Poison Control, ok?). The cream includes the same notes as Ford's Black Orchid perfume (one of my faves), but the addition of vanilla and black currant (both considered aphrodisiacs, I might add), gives it a sweeter, more tempting smell. Slather some on and you'll feel as frisky as Scarlett Johanssen and Keira Knightley on that famous Vanity Fair cover (where they were draped over a dapper Tom Ford).

Catherine Angiel 14k White Gold "Flaming Heart" Necklace With Black Diamonds, $3,300. Visit CatherineAngiel.com or call 212.924.4314.

This tattoo-inspired necklace, part of Catherine Angiel's Dangerous collection, makes me think of tainted love but in that way where you ask yourself how it can hurt so bad and feel so good (Lauryn Hill even talked about this type of unrequited love in "When It Hurts So Bad," off of the Miseducation of Lauryn Hill album).

GEOX "Nicole" Wedge, $150. Available at GEOX stores nationwide and at ShopGeox.com

Check out these glossy and flossy patent leather wedges from GEOX, the "shoe that breathes." Featuring GEOX's patented porous membrane and perforated sole, these shoes will give you a nice boost without forcing you to sacrifice comfort.

CC Skye "The Harris" Baguette Earrings, $98. Visit CCSkye.com

Give those bamboo earrings a rest and try out a 1920s-inspired, Art Deco look with these rectangular hoop earrings from CC Skye.

 

GOOD ART HLYWD "German Scroll" Bands, $265 for sterling silver; $3, 690 for 22k gold. Visit GoodArtHLYWD.com

The etched swirls on these rounded rings have so much finesse that they look like elegant strokes of a calligraphy pen on parchment paper. Whether used as a slightly subversive take on the wedding band or simply as elegant finger candy, these rings represent the symbiotic relationship between style and art.

 

Ugg Classic Cardy Boot in Sorbet, $140. Visit UggAustralia.com

The Classic Cardy is my absolute favorite style of Uggs, but no color scheme has gotten me quite as excited as this one. I was never too fond of the Mulberry hue (the closest thing to pink until now), but this Sorbet color is just sublime -- it makes me think of cotton candy, peonies, and cupcakes with strawberry frosting.

 

PETA Bunny Love necklace, $19.99. Visit PETACatalog.org

My mind goes right in the gutter whenever I see this necklace (you know, 'cause of the "humping like rabbits" saying), but I give props to PETA for releasing this unique necklace, which fits the V-Day theme while also proliferating PETA's message regarding the need to ban animal cruelty in any form.

 

K. Bell "Be Mine" Socks, $7.99. Visit AbsoluteSocks.com

Pudgy penguins, rabbits and chicks with balloons and sings reading "Be Mine" -- can you even imagine a cuter sock design?

Lisa Jordan Designs charms: solid gold Matt and London charms, $330 each; plain enamel blue Matt and pink London charms, $550 each. Visit LisaJordanDesigns.com

New mommies (or even pro, seasoned mommies) will appreciate these simple but chic charms, which can be worn as pendants on bracelets or necklaces. Each charm features a boy or girl (meant to symbolize a son or daughter), and comes in a variety of metals (yellow gold, sterling silver, rose gold, etc.), as well as designs (with an enamel coating, covered in diamonds, etc.).

La Mer Miraculous Beginnings, $340. Visit DeLaMer.com

Want to give someone a peek at skin heaven? Then do so with Miraculous Beginnings, a starter kit containing Creme de La Mer (1 oz.), The Moisturizing Lotion, (1 oz.), The Lifting Face Serum (.3 oz.), The Lifting Intensifier (.1 oz.), The Cleansing Lotion (4.2 oz.), The Tonic (4.2 oz.), and The Eye Concentrate (.1 oz.).

Kidada Jones for Disney Couture Bambi Neon Green Wrap Bracelet, $110. Visit Regencies.com

Actress Kidada Jones keeps bringing fire to her Disney Couture designs, managing to take some of the most beloved fairy tale characters and capture the magic of their stories while also producing hip and stylish jewelry that's appropriate for a broad range of age groups. This neon green wrap bracelet features small heart charms, as well as references to the most beloved deer of all time: Bambi.

 

William Rast Savoy Regular Rise Trouser in Bubble Gum, $220. Available at WilliamRast.com and RevolveClothing.com

If you'd told me a few years ago that I'd be lusting after a pair of trousers in a bubblegum pink hue, I would've looked at you sideways. But here I am, admiring these William Rast Savoy trousers (I particularly love the ladder-like shape cut along the pockets) and thinking about how nicely they'd go with those pink-and-tan Ariat boots in the closet. Who knew pink pants could be so hot?

Bella Lucce Peruvian Chocolate Bliss Creme, $16. Visit BellaLucce.com

Were you thinking about buying some chocolate syrup for the bedroom? Well, you may want to reconsider (it's sticky, messy and not as fun as it sounds). Instead, invest in this delicious, chocolate scented cream — perfect for rub-downs and feel-ups ;)

Boston Acoustics Horizon Duo-i AM/FM Stereo Radio With iPod Dock in Rosebud, $199.99. Visit BostonAcoustics.com

iPod newbies looking for a sensible and compact docking station will appreciate the Duo-i, which features and AM/FM radio, digital alarm clock, headphone input, and iPod docking station.

Giovanni Hot Chocolate Sugar Scrub, $13.99. Visit Target.com

Breathe in the sweet scent of hot cocoa while exfoliating and working to reveal healthier, more radiant skin.

BlackBerry Pearl 8110 Smartphone, $99.99. Visit Blackberry.com/blackperrypearl

Not only does the BB Pearl 8110 feature built-in GPS, a digital camera, mobile e-mail and instant messaging, music and video players, and an easy-to-use web browser, but it comes in this incredible sandstone-and-pink Henna-style pattern. 

Members Only Long Sleeve Pink Nylon Jacket, $98. Visit MembersOnlyStyle.com

The '80s brand made a stronger comeback than Diddy in his post Uptown Records phase. Staying true to the spirit and look of the original collection but updating it for a more contemporary audience, Members Only has created quite a stir among urban fashionistas like Rihanna and Fergie. This lightweight pink jacket is the perfect piece to finish up your look, and the zipper details and multiple pockets are beyond convenient for us bustlin' bees.

 
Banana Republic Rosewood Eau de Parfum, $62. Visit BananaRepublic.com

Floral and amber notes create a robust, earthy scent that's attractive without being flamboyant.

Scosha NYC Poetry Collection Gold and Solid Silver Earrings, $369. Visit ScoshaNYC.com

These silver earrings may be small, but they're big in style. The sculpted, slightly misshapen look of the hearts gives these earrings an artisan-esque feel, while the slightly dull silver creates an antique-y, rough-edged effect.

Tweezerman Heart Tweezers, $25. Visit Beauty.com

Do you want to create a nice beauty basket for your sis, co-worker, friend, or cousin? Then toss in this sassy pair of tweezers. Just make sure not to give this to anyone with a unibrow problem (it may seem like a good idea, but no).

Poof NY Eternal Glass Tile Pendant, $25. Visit PoofNY.Etsy.com

Anne Kristoff, the mastermind behind Poof NY, created this token of affection specifically for Valentine's Day. Inspired by the notion that true love is eternal, she created this beautiful pendant by mounting the image on a handmade round glass tile and sealing it with a non-toxic, resin-like material. This is a one-of-a-kind, handmade piece, so don't act too slow and wind up with an achy breaky heart.

Nancy Davis Diamonique Sterling Pavé Bangle, $255. Visit QVC.com

This sterling silver bangle, featuring heart and diamond shapes (some featuring Diamonique simulated diamonds) was co-designed by Nancy Silver and Tommy Hilfiger. Ten percent of the proceeds from the sale of the bangle will benefit the Nancy Davis Foundation of Multiple Sclerosis. You gotta love a gift that gives back!

Carol's Daughter Roses and Honey Shea Souffle, $20. Visit CarolsDaughter.com

This scent is so amazing one can only hope that it eventually makes it back into Carol's Daughter permanent collection. The intoxicating, romantic scent of roses, combined with the seductive, aphrodisiac power of honey, makes this shea souffle body cream a great prelude to some sexual healing.

Christian Audigier "Queen of Clubs" Watch (FOR-201), $295. Available at Nordstrom stores.

Want to play your cards right? Then check out this white Christian Audigier time piece, which features his tattoo- and airbrush-inspired artwork on the dial.

C.O. Bigelow Mentha Lip Tints in Plum Mint and Bare Mint, $5 each. Available at BathAndBodyWorks.com

These lip tints are a triple threat: they moisturize lips, freshen your breath (thanks to the minty taste and smell), and provide just the right tinge of color. Try one and you'll feel like you're on the express lane to kissable lips.

Yael Sonia 18k gold "Hearts in Motion" Pendant with Diamonds and Pink Tourmaline Rolling Sphere, $7,000. Visit YaelSonia.com or call 212.472.6488

As the "in motion" bit in this piece's name suggests, this incredibly unique pendant features a pink tourmaline that moves inside the rolling sphere. Just imagine how hypnotizing it would be to observe the moving gem as you twist and turn the necklace! Beats a Rubik's Cube, right?

LOG ON TOMORROW TO CHECK OUT SOME GOODIES FOR THE KIDS AND, YES, THE MEN IN OUR LIVES!

Holiday Gifts: For Your Homegirl, the Hip-Hop Hottie

Maybe she's a ride-or-die chick, an ambitious go-getta, a 'round-the-way-girl who prefers to hang with the boys, a die-hard rap fan who memorizes liner notes the way most people do crib notes, a ghetto fabulous diva, or just a sassy girl with a bold sense of fashion. Whatever the case, the hip-hop hottie in your life deserves a gift that speaks to her look-at-me-now ways.

Here, a few stellar options for this illmatic lady.

Luz by Houman "Luz Star" Pendant in 18k White Gold, $13120. Visit LuzStyle.com

The Luz line is centered on pieces that express "the mystery of love." This 18k white gold pendant, encrusted with 1.12 ct of black and white diamonds, captures this aura of intrigue (and note the heart symbol in the middle).

Adidas Originals Women's Ciero Mid, $80, and Instinct Hi,$85. Available in January at Adidas Originals Stores.

The Ciero Mid, pictured here in a Cyan/Fluorescent Green/Black colorway, takes its cue from the traditional skate shoe silhouette, for a roomier shoe that's still streamlines and boasts the clean lines tat make Adidas kicks so recognizable. The Instinct, meanwhile, features a throwback silhouette and color palette (how '80s is the Violet/Gravel Grey/Bloom scheme?). Part of Adidas' 60th Anniversary collection (yes, the Three Stripes is officially a senior citizen, albeit the hippest one in town, in 2009), these sneakers allow you to entertain your nostalgia without making your ensembles look dated.

 

Claw Money "Brace Yo Self" Tee, $45. Visit ClawMoney.com

When it comes to streetwear, Claw Money always delivers some hotness. This "Brace Yo Self" T-shirt is irreverent, quirky and fun — just like a Redman song.

Nanette Lepore "Bewitching" Ankle Boot, $273. Visit Bluefly.com

There's no room for subtlety and wallflower-esque behavior in hip-hop! You have to be bold, strong and audacious. And that's exactly the attitude conveyed by these Nanette Lepore boots — you can sass up a room and stomp anybody out in these "Ring the Alarm"-esque boots.

Alexis Bittar "Annie" Lucite Hoop Earrings, $175. Visit AlexisBittar.com

Door knockers and bamboo earrings aren't the only hoops that can hang from those earlobes. With their translucent, olive green hue and crystal accents, these lucite hoop earrings are more than worthy of some face time!

Penfield Women's Summit Color Block Down Jacket, $300. Visit PenfieldUSA.com

Color-blocked gear has been all the rage for Fall/Winter 2008, and this bubble jacket takes the trend to new heights with its interesting scheme of seemingly clashing colors that, surprisingly, create a nice blend.

 

Rock & Republic Bound Gel Eyeliner in "Torture," $24, and Mousse Blush in "Rumor," $28. Visit NeimanMarcus.com

Rock & Republic gear is all about attitude (Remember Season 2 of America's Next Top Model, when runner-up Mercedes worked their runway? Her walk, her facial expression and the fire in her eyes all conveyed the same sentiment: she was the H.B.I.C.!). Their cosmetics line, then, is an extension of this same philosophy. The Bound Gel Eyeliner allows you to create fierce feline eyes, and this purple "Torture" hue is regal, streetwise, and feminine all at once. The Mousse Blush, meanwhile, allows you to whip up some nice, natural-looking color along your cheeks — the "Rumor" color is perfect for a slightly bronzed effect.

 

 

Too Faced "Naughty or Nice" Palette, $29.50. Visit TooFaced.com

This dual-sided palette appeals to both your good girl and your good-girl-gone-bad sides (whether it's a Betty/Veronica, Beyoncé/Sasha Fierce, T.I./T.I.P. or Mary J. Blige/Brook paradigm). The "Nice" side includes a number of earthy eyeshadow and lipgloss hues to create a natural, polished look, whereas the "Naughty" side is packed with va-va-va-voom reds and wine colored lip hues, gray and gunmetal eyeshadows for smoky, sultry eyes, and everything you need to create the temptress-with-a-smile look.

Trish McEvoy Portable Beauty Brush Set, $58. Available at Nordstrom stores.

Trish McEvoy's brushes are legendary — year after year, beauty critics and makeup artists alike crown these brushes the heavyweight champions. These miniature brushes are perfect for the woman who is always on the move, chasing her paper like T.I. and Rihanna. Plus, the gold quilted pouch has just the right amount of dazzle.

The Wire: The Complete Series, $134.49. Visit Amazon.com

The greatest dramatic series ever (in my humble opinion) is now available in one, all-encompassing DVD set. If you homie still talks about Bodie, Stringer, D'Angelo and Marlo like they're her fallen soldiers, then she'll more than appreciate having them resurrected in this set.

Robert Ramos Volumizer, $31. Visit RobertRamos.com

Big hair and hip-hop go together like rice and beans. Think about it: from Ludacris's big 'fro (which I'm so sad he chopped off.. I thought he looked fly back then!) to Salt's (from Salt 'N Peppa) asymmetrical cut during the "Push It" era and Erykah Badu's towering Afro (which turned out to be a wig, but hey...), some of the biggest acts in hip-hop have sported some voluminous 'dos.

Want to get your hair to look like Mariah Carey's during the "Vision of Love" era? Or maybe like Bahamadia's 'fro? Then, divide your hair into sections, spray some of Robert Ramos's Volumizer onto the roots and work through the hair, then scrunch the different hair sections or style in the desired manner.

 

Cubannie Links "Freedom Tri-Rings" Earrings, $70, and "Coco Knocker" Earrings, $40. Visit CubannieLinks.com

Annie Basulto (a.k.a. Cuban Annie, the mind and talent behind Cubannie Links) crafts pieces that boast a distinctly urban sensibility without ever being gaudy or obnoxiously showy (think Baby Phat jewelry, which is the embodiment of tackiness). The braided, triangle-shaped earrings are perfect for Roc girls, Latin queens and pyramid-loving neo-soulstresses, and the Coco Knockers bring some fun '80s attitude to any ensemble.

Adidas by Stella McCartney Salju Boots, $240. Visit ShopAdidas.com

That Stella McCartney is so incredibly versatile. Just when you thought she'd conquered the last possible arena in fashion, she hits you with another surprise. These weatherproof boots can withstand the harshest of winter conditions and still manage to look sleek and elegant. Only McCartney!

 

DC Shoes Venice Mid LX in Red, $75. Visit DCShoes.com

These streamlined mid-tops are simple but forward-thinking. The perforations along the sides add a nice stylistic touch, while also providing greater breathability, and the red patent leather packs more shine than Dorothy's lame ruby slippers. But my favorite design element involves the asymmetrical shape of the eyelets, which go up in a bit of a slant, so that the laces look like they're going up sideways. Funky freshness at its best.

 

Digging For Dirt: The Life and Death of ODB, $16.99. Visit Amazon.com

Driven by the desire to capture late Wu-Tang Clan member O.D.B. (A.K.A. Ol' Dirty Bastard, Big Baby Jesus, Dirt McGirt, etc., etc.) as more than an eccentric caricature whose problems with the law and substance abuse were drawn out (and mocked) in the media, Jaime Lowe sets out to find out more about one of her musical icons.

Beyond the information she finds, though, what makes this an interesting read is Lowe's candor — she writes about how Wu-Tang appealed to sheltered white hipsters, plus how and why she herself was drawn to them and, in doing so, she establishes a rapport with her reader that establishes her as a clear-eyed fan, one who appreciates the music but who is also very aware of the differences between her upbringing and background and that of the members of the group she so adores. 

Passionate, clever and well-researched, this is a book ODB fans everywhere should check out.

 

DANNIJO "Madge On the Rocks" Necklace, $298, and DANNIJO "Blondie" Necklace, $320. Visit DanniJo.com

What rapper doesn't have a fascination with chains? Just think about all the songs referencing chains: Jibbs's "Chain Hang Low," Fabolous's "Diamonds," Royal Flush's "Iced Down Medallions," etc., etc., etc.  These Dannijo chains, however, offer a more refined and fashion-forward alternative to the rope chains, oversized nameplates, and blinged-out medallions. The "Madge on the Rocks" necklace? I'm straight-up in love!!!

BlackBerry Storm (for Verizon Wireless), $199.99. Visit VerizonWirless.com

I'm a but bummed that the BlackBerry Storm is only available for Verizon customers, but that's only because I wouldn't mind owning a touch-screen BBerry.

 

Overspray: Riding High With The Kings of California Airbrush Art by Norman Hathaway (Picturebox), $35. Visit Amazon.com

This fantastic tome captures the rise of airbrush art in Los Angeles during the 1970s, featuring works for such diverse clients as Playboy, Levi's and the Rolling Stone, completed by the fabulous foursome dominating the artform in that era: Charles E. White III, Peter Palombi, Dave Willardson and Peter Lloyd.

 

Bare Escentuals "Beautifully Luminous Lashes" Mascara in Diamond, $15. Visit Sephora.com

Who doesn't want to sparkle like a diamond in a room? This shimmering silver-toned mascara from Bare Escentuals gives any girl's peepers the right amount of pizzazz.

 

Obvious Clothing Slash-Front Hoodie, $82, and Big Wing T-shirt, $68. Visit Obvious-Clothing.com

Though this line is dubbed Obvious Clothing, there's nothing obvious about these designs, which conjure up images of mythical birds printed using lustrous gold foil.

 

PF Flyers Number 5 sneakers, $95. Visit Zappos.com

Forget "lucky number seven" and opt for PF Flyers' lucky Number 5s. In this brown leather hue, the Number 5s offer the comfort of a sneaker (and not just any sneaker — after all PF Flyer is known for emphasizing arch support in its designs) and the sophistication of a formal shoe.

 

Maura Daniel "Sarah" Chandelier, $378. Visit NotooShabby.com

Any bedroom will go from drab to diva-worthy with this black chandelier from Maura Daniel, which includes teardrop black crystals, garlands lined with black beads, and matte black fixtures.

 

L.A.M.B. Bangalore Shoulder Bag, $345. Visit Vivre.com

Most of the Mondrian-esque designs we've been seeing throughout the season fall short when pitted next to this jaunty shoulder bag by the fabulous Gwen Stefani.

OBEY Public Enemy Jacket, $87.50. Visit Karmaloop.com

For fall 2008, Obey Clothing (Shephard Fairey's streetwear line) teamed up with Public Enemy to create a series of designs that celebrate the pioneering rap group's legacy — both in terms of music and fashion. With its belted wait, double breasted front, P.E. logo along the shoulder, and military-inspired design details, this trench coat captures the Public Enemy vibe circa the Fear of A Black Planet era.

Allison Daniel Fleur de Lis Necklace, $76. Visit Tobi.com

Fit for any queen, this necklace takes an ancient symbol (the fleur de lys) and gives it a modern makeover (the bold sized and eye-popping etchings).

Kooba Rio Tote, $645. Visit Shopbop.com

Between the luscious sangría color the intriguing geometric shapes, this Kooba tote is worthy of a space in the MOMA.

 

Arrojo High Shine Holiday Gift Set, $30. Visit Store.ArrojoProduct.com

Nick Arrojo's eponymous line of hair products never disappoints. Not only are Arrojo's products highly effective, but they're reasonably priced, making them accessible to average customers and not just the frou-frou, ladies-who-lunch crowd. This holiday gift set is among my favorites (though there are some other great options available). The  High Shine set includes Arrojo's Holding Spray, Thermal Protector and Shine Spray — everything you need for dazzling holiday hair.

 

Zip Zip USB Memory Brick, $29 for 1B. Visit ZipZip.Net.Au

A USB drive made to look like a Lego? That's just genius. Just make sure to keep it away from the kids or it might just end up in one of their Lego constructions.

Grand Theft Auto IV for XBox 360, $53.99. Visit Amazon.com

Sure, it's violent, offensive and entirely inappropriate for children, but if you've played GTA IV, you also know it's a lot of fun (and an excellent way to let out any pent-up agression). Just make sure to limit the reckless driving and gunplay to your XBOX time, okay?

 

01 The One "Ibiza Ride" Cuff Bracelet, $249. Visit 01TheOne.com to locate a retailer near you.

 

Reebok Freestyle Hi NYC Sneakers, $84.95. Visit Shoebuy.com

Native New Yorkers may moan and groan over the yellow cabs swarming around Times Square but, in truth, we're just as likely to complain if we're in a rush or it's absolutely frigid outside and we can't seem to find a cab. Hey, one of the beautifully convenient things about New York is that you can pretty much throw your arm up anywhere and a cab will surface!

This Reebok Freestyle sneaker style pays homage to NYC's rep as the City that Never Sleeps, with its all-over typography (referencing neighborhoods like Tribeca and Chelsea, streets like Park Avenue and Lafayette Street and more), bright yellow hue and checkered laces.

 

Hoodman "I Shoot Hipsters" T-shirt, $16. Visit Hoodman.Tv/Shope

I'd never advocate violence, but I can't say I didn't giggle (or really, roll around laughing) at the sentiment captured in this Hoodman T-shirt. Note to all the wannabes: rocking some Timbs and memorizing some hip-hop lingo will not make you hard or street. We can see right through the fake thuggery, so leave it alone.

 

ION LP 2 FLASH, $200. Visit IonAudio.com

Streets Ahead "Sex and the City Studded Belt," $208. Visit OwlsLab.com

After Sarah Jessica Parker wore this studded Streets Ahead belt in the Sex and the City movie, women everywhere pined for this piece about as hard as they dreamed of their own fairy-tale ending. Now, here's your chance to give the Carrie in your life a little something to remember you by!

 

Soft & Beautiful Hydra Sculpt Firming Lotion, Skin Body Oil Gel, Body Butter Cream, $6.49; Hand Cream and 24-Hour Moisture Soft Body Lotion, $6.49 each. Visit Drugstore.com

To go from ashy to classy like B.I.G., reach for some Soft & Beautiful SKIN products. At less than $10 a pop, these are a great, recession-proof answer to dry and dull skin. The products will leave your skin feeling softer and way more supple, so it's no wonder why Alicia Keys is already a fan!

 

CC Skye Braided Knot Mesh Cuff, $110. Visit CCSkye.com

This braided mesh cuff is even more powerful than Wonder Woman's bracelet. Yep, I said it.

Harajuku Lovers Medium Gift Box (Contains a "Pop" Make-up Case), $38. Available at Macy's stores.

As if the makeup case wasn't cute enough, it's packaged in a box made to resemble a boombox. Open the top lid, and you'll hear a snippet from Gwen Stefani's "What You Waiting For?" blasting from the built-in speaker.

 

Faryl Robin "Sable" Heels, $203.15. Visit ShopFarylRobin.com

Not quite a stiletto, not quite a bootie, this ultra-sexy shoe plays peek-a-boo with the beholder, letting them se just a hint of skin then covering up the rest. What a fabulous tease, right?!

Born Uniqorn Trench, $168. Visit RevolveClothing.com

Created by actress/singer Taryn Manning and Tara Jane, Born Uniqorn is taking young Hollywood by storm, boasting fans like Lindsay Lohan, Paris Hilton and Rachel Bilson. With its comfortable, laidback designs, which fuse together rock and hip-hop elements, Born Uniqorn offers form-fitting pieces that you can throw on for an instantly chic but not overdone look.

This lightweight navy blue trench jacket is a perfect example of the line's vibe -- the gold buttons add a military feel, as do the epaulets and the stand-up collar, but the bell sleeves and the gathered bottom add a playful, flirtatious vibe.

CC Skye Pair of Lucite Spike Bangles, $125. Visit CCSkye.com

Arm candy goes a long way to up an outfit's ante. These clear lucite bangles work well with any ensemble, and the gold spikes add that in-your-face quality that every hip-hop lover can appreciate.

'80s Cube Clock, $22. Visit FredFlare.com

Rubik's cubes never go out of style. Shoo, from Rainman to The Pursuit of Happyness, it's still used as an I.Q. test of sorts in movies revolving around someone's genius. Now, if the brainiac in your life has an issue with punctuality, then why not make the subject of timeliness a bit more fun with this Cube Clock? I'm sure those waiting on her will appreciate your gesture!

 

Betseyville Computer Bag, $29.99. Available at Marshalls stores.

Betsey Johnson loves color (hence her hair color!) and she never shies away from it in her designs. This checkered laptop bag, with its tattoo-like graphic, is tough and feminine at the same time — just like any cosmopolitan lady.

Zina Beverly Hills "Africa" Necklace, $195. Visit ZinaBeverlyHills.com

The large spheres linked together in this sterling silver necklace bear complex etchings reminiscent of ancient hieroglyphics. There's also a fascianting tribal feel to this piece, which gives it a certain power and regalness.

L.A.M.B. Hunter Shoes, $266. Available at RevolveClothing.com

These bold shoes fuse together elements from gladiator sandals, ankle booties and stilettos for a unique silhouette that's feminine but strong in a color that looks slightly aged and weathered.

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Holiday Gifts Part 7: For the Intellectual Cousin

Whether she's a professional student (you know, they type that's had 8 majors and has spent half her life in classrooms), an educator, or just a good ol' book worm, this lady likes to stimulate her brain and to expand the breadth of her knowledge. She's an overachiever not only in terms of her career ambitions, but when it comes to her life as a whole, setting the bar extraordinarily high when it comes to any feat.

Here, a few gifts that will fit her fun-but-still-demure fashion style, pique her intellectual curiosity, help her better organize her work space, and more!

Ben Sherman Coat, $139.50. Visit Amazon.com

 

Gonzo: The Life and Work of Dr. Hunter S. Thompson by Alex Gibney (Magnolia Pictures), $18.99. Visit Amazon.com

 

Jenni Bick Leather Heart Journal, $47. Visit JenniBick.com

 

 

Snow & Graham Winter Berry Note Block, $16. Visit redstamp.com

 

Eye Bobs "Odd Lot" Reading Glass Frames, $65. Visit EyeBobs.com

 

Hulger "Penelope" Phone & USB Base, $145. Visit 2Modern.com

Young Che: Memories of Che Guevara By His Father, $11.66. Visit Amazon.com

 

Vasa Desk Cubes, $350. Visit MomaStore.org

 

Jil Sander Woman Scent 79, $110. Visit NeimanMarcus.com

 
Cole Haan Genevieve Collection Triangle Tote, $495. Visit ColeHaan.com

 

Orla Kiely Notebooks, $17 each. Visit SeeJaneWork.com

 

Parq Document Trays, $42 each. Visit Zwello.com

Dermalogica Stress Relief Set, $53. Visit Dermstore.com

 

The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao, $7.99. Visit Amazon.com

Renew Eyelash Revitalizer, $80. Visit AskDerm.com

 

Tocca "Brigitte" Eau de Parfum, $68. Visit Tocca.com

 

Terralina Skincare Gift Set, $105. Visit Terralina.com

 

Ruehl No. 925 "Parker" Tote, $328. Visit Ruehl.com

The War Behind Me: Vietnam Veterans Confront the Truth About U.S. War Crimes, $19.16. Visit Amazon.com

BCBG Red Bow Wristlet, $108. Visit BCBG.com

Get the Party Started: More Gifts for the Hostess!

After the success of STA's last hostess gift round-up, we're giving you all yet another batch of fun ideas. Here's a thorough round-up that includes everything from recipe kits and cooking tools to martini shakers, dinner plates, champagne buckets, serving trays, liquor gift sets, DVDs and games to keep the guests entertained and rockin' around the Christmas tree.

Albrizzi Acrylic Domino Set, $215. Visit Vivre.com

A good game of dominoes doesn't have to be affiliated with viejitos camping out at picturesque plazas in Puerto Rico and Santo Domingo. After all, this is the Latino answer to chess or spades (seriously, we've got leagues, man!). And sure, the old-school sets emblazoned with coquí figures and PR flags are always dope, but if you wanna give a more high-end option, these are as luxe as they come.

Angela Adams Monjoy/Robin's Egg Tumbler Glasses, $32 for set of 4; Monjoy/Robin's Egg Juice Glasses, $30 for set of 4. Visit AngelaAdams.com

If there's something Angela Adams is known for, it's her fantastic prints — whether they appear on textiles (wallpaper, throw pillows, and bedding) or glassware. With their retro graphics, these glasses will make any table a bit groovier.

What's Cookin' Recipe Tin, $18. Visit Fredflare.com

Losing a treasured family recipe really blows. I should know — I lost my grandma's recipe for coquito (Puerto Rican eggnog), and I've been peeved about it for years. So, why not save somebody else from sharing that fate? With this recipe tin, they can jot down any recipe and keep it tucked away in a safe (and cute) place.

Full Contact Spice Grinder, $39.95. Visit ModDecor.com

In a Latino kitchen, we call this device a pilón – it's what we reach for when we want to mash plantains to make mofongo or mangú and to grind up the spices necessary for making homemade sofrito. Usually, we employ wooden ones, but this ceramic one does the trick just as nicely — and it'll suit a more modern kitchen decor.

Saccso Champagne Bucket by L'Orfreverie D'Anjou, $655. Visit Vivre.com

Wanna pop champagne? Then you gotta do it right and put that baby on ice. And have you ever seen a sassier champagne bucket? Exacty!

Dom Perignon Power Trio,£685.09. Visit Harrods.com

Champagne connoisseurs will appreciate this DP threesome, which includes a bottle of Dom Perignon 2000, one of Dom Perignon Rose 1998 and a bottle of Dom Perignon Oenotheque 1995. 

 
Harmonic Basket by Abi Alice, $115. Visit MomaStore.org

The architectural folds in this basket make it a true piece of art — what table wouldn't look better with this atop it?

Kate Spade Collingwood Drive Dinner Plate, $28. Visit HomeClick.com

If you didn't know Kate Spade designed flatware, you've been missing out. The handbag queen brings her distinctive, feminine aesthetic to the dinner table with plates in eye-catching patterns like this "Collingwood Drive" one.
 

Espresso Cup and Saucer Set (4 piece), $24.99. Visit RetroPlanet.com

With their diamond-shaped graphics, earthy colors, and unique shape, this espresso cup and saucer set looks like it belongs on the set of That '70s Show.

Café Bustelo Tote, $84.99. Visit JavaCabana.com

This "I Love Café Bustelo" tote pretty much sums up my sentiment about the ubiquitous coffee brand. And hey, there's always a coffee lover like me at every party, so why not bring them something they can enjoy? This bag comes equipped with four Café Bustelo Cool cans, one 29.2 oz. Café Bustelo Té can, 2 Café Bustelo Instant Cofee jars, a mug, and even a Café Bustelo T-shirt and hat for those die-hard fans who want to rep on the street.

Bacardi 8 Rum, $19.99. Available at select liquor stores. Visit Bacardi.com

Aged eight years in small oak casks, Bacardi 8 packs quite a punch and goes down ever so smoothly. Trust: I sampled some for Thanksgiving and let's just say it made my holiday even happier!

Hell Ride DVD, $12.99; The Happening DVD, $19.99. Visit Amazon.com

If you're attending a small gathering at someone's house, you may want to consider bringing some form of entertainment — and a good movie always does the trick. Period pieces and tear jerkers will bring down the mood in about 60 seconds, so your best bet is a thriller like The Happening (which does keep you intrigued, even if some have mocked the environmentalist premise) or a fast-paced ation flick like the Quentin Tarantino-produced, Larry-Bishop directed Hell Ride.

 Bunny Maxwell Nocturnal Serving Tray, $45. Visit BunnyMaxwell.com

Serving will actually become a fun activity, rather than a back-breaking task, when you get to flaunt your gorgeous, Asian-inspired serving tray.

Vera Wang Silver Grosgrain Wine Holder, $48, and Silver Challis Martini Shaker, $51. Visit Bluefly.com 

The bridal guru (as Anthony told Charlotte in Sex and the City, when it comes to wedding dresses, you go with Wang ) has dominated way more than church aisles. Her home collection (yes, everyone from Ralph Lauren to Armani, Kate Spade, Versace, Hermes and Michael Kors has launched a home decor line) includes such simple but exquisite piece as this silver wine holder and martini shaker.

10 Cane Mojito Set, $25.99. Visit PostWines.com

Mojitos are easy-to-make, crowd-pleasing drinks and, with this handy set from 10 Cane Rum, they're even more of a cinch to prepare. and hey, if someone wants to bypass the mojito madness, you can reach for the 10 Cane bottle and offer them a cocktail prepared with one of the most superb rums in the market.

 

 

 

Le Pain Quotidien certified organic products: "Blondie" Belgian White Chocolate Spread, $9.95; Strawberry Fruit Preserve, $5.95; Apple Cinnamon Fruit Preserve, $5.95. Visit LePainQuotidien.com

If you've ever strolled inside one of the Le Pain Quotidien restaurants in New York, D.C. or Los Angeles, you already know they specialize in fresh artisan breads, baked delights and mouth-watering gourmet goods. You can bring some of these culinary sensation into somebody's home by purchasing some of their fruit preserves (the Apple Cinnamon flavor pictured above is divine) or chocolate spreads (the Belgian White Chocolate Spread is downright sinful).

 
Leather Coaster Set, $21.99. Visit ModernArtisans.com
 

If you want to win some points with the hostess, help her keep her wooden surfaces intact (no nasty ring imprints left by inconsiderate guests who failed to use a coaster). Any Bree Van De Kamp type would be moved by this gift.

Alessi Mr. Chin Kitchen Timer, $50. Visit Fitzsu.com

Making the perfect roast, having the meat have the right tenderness and flavor, is all about timing. And, when you're running around the kitchen, it's easy to lose track of time and either overcook or undercook your meal — which is precisely why timers were invented. Now, if you had to choose between a plain, round timer in a drab white color and this funky, caricature-like one, which one would you choose? There you go!

Holiday Gifts Part 4: For the Kids (and the Moms-to-Be)

BABY (AND BABY ON THE WAY!)

 

The Clever Kitty Felted Hi-Top Baby Shoes, $27.50. Visit TheCleverKitty.Etsy.com

These lace-up booties look like hi-top sneakers (think PF Flyers or Chuck Taylors) so, once you slip them on your baby, he or she may just experience a bit of a swagger boost (or at least you will!)

Juicy Couture Baby Girl Pacifier Set, $24. Visit ShopPetal.com

If you're buying for a new mom who manages to work a stroller with amazing deftness while also walking in heels a la Posh Spice, then you might want to consider getting her this pacifier set. After all, she'll want her baby to be stylin' as much as she is!

 

 miYim Organic Gift Set, $48.99. Visit Amazon.com

Any mommy concerned with "greening" her house will fall in love with this layette set, which includes a cozy blanket bearing a sheep's head at the corner, a duck-shaped rattle and a bunny rabbit toy — all made using organic cotton free of any artificial dyes.

Noodle & Boo Glowology Honey Child Kit, $35. Visit NoodleAndBoo.com

The Glowology line was designed for mothers who have skin that's as sensitive as that of their children (it''s a subset of the Noodle & Boo line of baby products which proved to be so successful among adult women, who used the products for their own bathing and moisturizing routines, that the creators decided to launch a line exclusively for these mommies).

The Sugar Mama Honey Scrub includes exfoliating sugar, moisturizing shea butter and honey, soothing aloe and vitamin E, and nourishing coconut oil. The Sugar Mama Honey Bar, meanwhile, features a blend of honey, shea butter, and vitamins that nourishes, cleanses and moisturizes delicate skin. This kit is perfect for a new mommy, especially since she can share the soap with her baby!

Splendid Littles Mini Stripe Onesie And Hat Gift Set, $66. Visit Miostile.com

This ultra soft onesie and matching beanie hat are the perfect gift for any newborn girl (or her loving mother). The two pieces come inside a matching cinch bag for added cuteness.

 

 

Rosie Pope Maternity Linen Classic Diaper Bag in White, $358; Leather Hobo Diaper Bag in Chocolate, $398. Visit RosiePopeMaternity.com

Diaper bags tend to be so unseemly and, really, who wants to carry around a chic purse and then add on a huge, tacky nylon bag with polka dots or cartoon character prints? Yuck! What stylish mommies need are multi-tasking diaper bags that, on the outside, look as fabulous as their best purses and, on the inside, include all the necessary compartments (a bottle holder, diaper changing mat, tiny pockets for pacifiers, a slot for diapers, larger pockets for clothing changes, etc.).

These elegant diaper bags by chic maternity line Rosie Pope are roomy enough to fit all the necessary accouterments, as well as mommy's own essentials (keys, wallet, lipstick, etc.), and each comes with a matching foldable changing mat (nice touch, right?). The leather is sumptuous and buttery soft, and the designs are sleek and versatile — so much so that other women will stare at your bag in envy, not even realizing it's a diaper bag!

Frankly, I'd wear the chocolate-colored leather hobo bag any day of the week (and note: my child is 4, so I clearly wouldn't be using it as a diaper bag!)

Ugg Australia Baby Crochet Booties, $49.95. Visit Nordstrom.com

Don't let those silly hats Common used to wear fool you — crochet can be rather fashionable, especially when it comes to baby fashions. These precious Ugg booties, with their pastel color scheme and ribbon detail, are proof of what grandmas everywhere have been telling us for years: a few balls of yarn and some knitting needles can lead to wearable art.

Manuella elephant, $36. Visit Coolil.com

This bright pink elephant stuffed animal reminds me of the Ant Eater from the old-school Pink Panther cartoons (which is probably why I dig it!). There's also a sheepish, Eeyore-like quality to it: the drooping ears, limp trunk (get your minds out the gutter!), squinted eyes, and oddly shaped body make it a bit awkward — and all the more in need of some hugs.

 

Summer Infant Nature's Purest Activity Block, $49.99. Visit Amazon.com

Eco-conscious mommies who don't want to invest in plastic toys will go ga-ga over these stackable blocks made using organic cotton.

Ralph Lauren Tartan Dress, $55. Visit RalphLauren.com

Tartan prints have been huge this fall, and Ralph Lauren has certainly been carrying the torch for the trend, releasing posh jackets and ankle boots in black-and-red tartan prints (you might remember Wilhelmina Slater (Vanessa Williams' character on Ugly Betty) wearing a tartan print Ralph Lauren jacket during the recent "Tornado Girl" episode). Now, babies can get in on the fun too, with this adorable tartan dress with ruffled sleeves and neckline.

 

Nui Organics "Kina Collection" Lamb Booties, $35. Visit Amazon.com

Give the lovable baby in your life some holiday spirit with these cozy red boots, made of 100% wool and lambskin.

 

So Cozy Starter Kit, $30. Visit SoCozyCutsForKids.com

Does your baby detest bath time? Well, So Cozy might just be your lifesaver when it comes to tub waters— the collection of tear free shampoos and conditioners comes in kid-friendly scents like grape, green apple and strawberry, and the bright bottles alone will grab your child's attention.

Small Paul Tuxedo Onesie, $24. Visit TheDapperBaby.com

Attending a formal affair? Don't want your sweet pea to feel left out? Then dress him up in this trompe l'oeil tuxedo onesie (note how it even has a pocket hankie!) and let him be the most dashing gent in the crowd!

 

L'Occitane Animal Soap Set, $8. Visit Usa.LOccitane.com

These gentle, animal-shaped soaps are safe to use on infants with sensitive skin (and they'll giggle over the fun animal shapes). Another plus: 100% of the proceeds from the sale of these sets will go to ORBIS, an organization that helps the blind.

 

 

Children's Place Snowman Blanket Sleeper Pajamas. $8 each. Visit ChildrensPlace.com

These fleece footsie pajamas are so cozy you'll wonder if they make any in your size. Sure, it would probably kill your sex life, but you wouldn't complain about it being too cold in your crib!

TODDLERS

Kung Fu Panda & Secrets Of The Furious Five DVD pack, $24.49. Visit BN.com

When it comes to the best children's movies out there, I always look to a wonderfully truthful, reliable source: my 4-year-old son. This has officially become his new favorite movie (he'll watch it over and over and over again for days on end). It's smart, witty, action-packed (hey, most little kids won't sit still for a slow-moving film), and has a beautiful moral in the end. It's a movie both kids and parents will appreciate.

 

FurReal Tumbles Rollover Puppy, $29.88 at Amazon.com

Has your little one been driving you crazy asking fro a puppy? Does the thought of walking a dog several times a day, shelling out money for Pedigree and Iams, and scheduling vet visits make you shudder? Well, no need to despair: the FurReal Tumbles puppy is so lifelike, it'll satisfy your little one's desire to own a doggy (at least temporarily!). If you squeeze its paw, the dog rolls over playfully and barks in amusement. Your kid can play with this pup all day, and there will be no Pooper Scooper needed. How's that for a selling point?!

 

My Little Pony Collection Original 1983 My Little Pony Collection, $10.99. Visit Amazon.com

Just in time for the holidays, Hasbro released the classic 1983 MLP collection featuring Blue Belle, Cotton Candy and Butterscotch. Share the joy you once had playing with these dreamy ponies with your little girl — she'll appreciate your enthusiasm!
 

 
Splendid Littles Goodnight Lurex Striped Tank Dress, $46.95. Visit TuttiBella.com. 

This striped tank dress, which has a Where's Waldo?-meets-Candy Land feel, is so saucy it made me daydream about having a little girl (just so I could dress her up in this!). The shimmering silver stripes add an extra dose of look-at-me-now attitude —perfect for those precocious, coquettish little girls who love the spotlight.

VTech Wall-E laptop, $29.99. Visit VTechKids.com

The year's most lovable robot can now teach your kids thanks to this laptop, which features five distinct functions: letters, words, math, logic and games. Wall-E's eyes blink for every right answer, which surely is way more encouraging than any gold star sticker!

Burberry Girls' Exploded Tonal Coat, $400. Visit Bloomingdales.com

I can almost picture a young Dakota Fanning wearing this coat in some Hollywood film, like maybe Uptown Girls. With its velvet collar and cuffs and classic Burberry print, it's the ultimate coat for your little princess.

Are You Smarter Than A 5th Grader Card Game — Disney Edition, $12.99. Visit ToysRUs.com

Looking through some of the questions printed on these game cards, I can honestly say I'm not smarter than a 5th grader! LOL. This educational game is tons of fun, and you'll all come out learning a thing or two (yes, you included). Plus, the new Disney packaging will draw kids even more and make the whole learning experience seem like the most amusing of activities.

 

Guess Baby Girl Sheen Satin Shoes, $30. Visit Macys.com

She may not be a ballerina, but in these satin shoes with rhinestone accents, your baby girl will be the primadonna in the crowd.

 

 

 

 

Cranium Hullabaloo, $15.99 at Amazon.com

If your kids are always bouncing off the walls, then why not get them a game that will allow them to do so while also encouraging them to learn? The talking musical console adds another element to the game, encouraging kids to dance on cue and the illustrated cards make it easy to follow the instructions. Kids move from one color to the next and use their bodies to pull off the instructed moves, whether it involves spinning, crawling, stomping or any other fun activity!

New Balance 574 Sesame Street sneakers (shown above in the "Cookie Monster" and "Elmo" styles), $42.99 each; Adidas Bokajone Looney Tunes sneakers (Sylvester the Cat, Bugs Bunny and Daffy Duck styles pictured), $39.95; Reebok Freestyle "Mrs. Potato Head" edition and Reebok Reverse Jam Mr. Potato Head edition. All available at Footlocker stores. Visit FootLocker.com

Kids love cartoons. Parents love seeing their kids' small feet in nice sneakers. With these fun shoes by New Balance, Adidas' Bojakone line and Reebok, everyone wins. The New Balance Sesame Street kicks are adorable (I'm particularly fond of the Cookie Monster style), but I think the Reebok Mr. Potato Head sneakers are the most unexpected and innovative. But hey, it's all about what will make your kid smile!

 

Mater Ride-On Toy, $29.99. Visit Target.com

Let your little one go for a spin in this adorable ride-on car, shaped like Mater (the lovable tow truck character from the Pixar movie Cars). And no worries — Mater may have been the "world's best backwards driver" in the movie, but this ride-on toy will go straight ahead (as long as your child navigates it well, that is!)

 

 

Little Ella by Ella Moss Madison dress, $76. Visit LisaKline.com

When creating her Little Ella line, beloved designer Ella Moss did not skimp on style. Her offerings feature premium cotton jersey that feels like a second skin, and the designs are just as flirty and fabulous. This long-sleeved wrap dress is so fly, you'll wonder if it's available in adult sizes.

 

Fisher-Price GeoTrax Rail and Road System Grand Central Station, $54.49. Visit Amazon.com

What little boy doesn't like an intricate train set? This one is compact enough that it won't take over an entire living room, but it still has all the bells and whistles to make a kid's eyes sparkle: the looping train tracks, the station overhead, staircases and more.

PRE-TEEN

Geometric Pendant Necklace, $12.99. Visit GirlProps.com

Are you always telling your daughter to get her curious little fingers out of your jewelry box? Well, maybe it's time to get her some funky pieces of her own. Sure, she's not old enough to own some family heirlooms but why not treat her to some stylish costume jewelry? This geometric pendant necklace, with its overlapping rectangular and square shapes, is just the ticket.

 

Dylan's Candy Bar Candy Lip Saver Set, $30. Visit DylansCandyBar.com

Packaged in this vibrant container, which plays up Dylan's Candy Bar's sweet roots, this set includes four flavored lip treatments: Coconut Bonbon, Birthday Cake Batter, Strawberry Licorice and Chocolate Cupcake. It's age-appropriate for pre-teen girls, and they'll still feel foxy and oh-so-cool.

 

M3 Girl Designs Magnetic "Snap Cap" Bottle Cap Necklaces, $14. Visit M3GirlDesigns.com

This is one of THE most creative gift ideas I've seen this season! Launched in 2006 by a then-11-year-old sixth grader in Texas, M3 Girl Designs offers embellished bottlecap necklaces in various designs: from bold initials to '70s-inspired icons (peace signs, happy faces, etc.), recycle logos, and "western" or "diva" motifs.

Each handmade bottlecap bears a magnet on its back and the accompanying necklace features a metal loop, making it possible for the caps to snap right on to the necklace (the clever set-up also allows young girls to switch up the Snap Caps to suit their mood or match their outfits). These affordable Snap Caps can be traded among friends, used to decorate lockers, or even collected (like boys do with baseball cards). It's fun, creative and stylish — what more can you ask for?

Maddie Boot, $58.50. Visit Delias.com

Does your 12-year-old want some funky boots? Well, it doesn't get wilder than these zebra print boots, lined with faux sheepskin.

 

Philosophy "Under the Mistletoe" Lipgloss Ornament Trio, $28. Visit Sephora.com

If your daughter is at that age where she's dying to wear makeup but you just don't think it's appropriate quite yet, then meet her half way with these shimmering lip glosses from Philosophy. They're barely tinted, but they will add a bit of sparkle to lips. Plus the flavors are so yummy: Spicy Pear, Gingerbread and Orange Cranberry.

The best part? You can buy this lipstick trio and hang the ornament box on your Christmas tree!

Cube World Series 4, $14.95 for 2-pack. Visit Firebox.com

Each of these cubes features an animated stick figure partaking in an activity (whether it's shooting hoops or playing soccer). If you get one cube, your stick guy will amuse himself (and you can push the buttons and coordinate his moves) BUT, if you add on another cube, the stick guys in each cube will interact with one another, creating their very own world. The more cubes you get, the bigger the party!

 

Sally Hansen La Cross Stocking Treats Implement Stuffer, $2.95. Available at Duane Reade and Rite Aid stores.

Once girls hit a certain age, they become fascinated with their nails, begging their moms for some nail polish and maybe even a trip to get a manicure. If your daughter is old enough to do her nails, then why not give her the necessary tools with this adorable Sally Hansen set? Packaged in a stocking-shaped plastic, the set includes a nail clipper, cuticle pusher, cuticle trimmer and nail file.

 

Loop Design Teaser Tote in Aqua Houndstooth, $50. Visit Karmaloop.com

This houndstooth bag looks like a caricature (the slit pocket looks like a mouth and the round ruffled shoulder strap bases look like makeshift eyes), and the colorway is dazzling and electric.

 

Fossil heart necklace, $25. Visit Fossil.com

Give the love of your life a jeweled heart necklace (a heart for your heart, if you will). This tiny gold-tone necklace with a heart pendant featuring light colorado crystal accents is perfect for young girls, and it's packaged in a tin case designed to resemble a gift box and including a ribbon for those who want to hang it up on a tree. 

S.T.A.M.P.S. Glam Duo Watch, $65. Visit UrbanOutfitters.com

Does your little girl know what time it is? Does she have a unique sense of style? Does she want to stand out from the fray? Then she'll fall in love with this bold watch with its houndstooth print watch — she'll be flashing it more than Flavor Flav does his clocks, ok?!

 

Planet Sox socks, starting at $8. Available at Daffy's stores.

Socks get a bum rap. If you tell someone they're getting socks for Christmas, it can lead to tears, groaning, sighing, or a straight-up temper tantrum. But see, that's because they've never received socks as fashionable and quirky as these — not just wardrobe necessities but accessories that can spice up an outfit, these Planet Sox offerings could just have your kids smiling over a box of socks.

Dakine Girls "Madge" Bag in Windowpane Print, $39.95; Dakine Girls "Betty" Cosmetic Case in Windowpane Print, $34.95. Visit BagKing.com

Girls who love Barbies, Sweet Valley High, Hannah Montanna and High School Musical will appreciate these Dakine bags, which feature a surfer girl, flowered print in turquoise, white and hot pink. The "Madge" is a roomy shoulder bag perfect for a trip to the movies or to the mall with the girls, while the "Betty" cosmetic case is perfect for all her lip glosses and tiny brushes.

 

C-Thru Ruby, Blue Opal and Purple Diamond scents, $17 for 1 oz. and $25 for 2.5 oz. Available at Wal-Mart stores in December and at Target and Kohl's stores in January.

These jewel-toned fragrance bottles are a great addition to your teen (or pre-teen's) dresser. The three C-Thru scents (Ruby, a blend of peach, rose and vanilla; Blue Opal, a dynamic mix of watermelon and lilac; and Purple Diamond, a sexier jasmine-based fragrance) are designed specifically for young girls and the scents are appealing without being overly sexy. Give your girl this collection of scents and she'll feel like a princess.
 

Forget Me Knot Ring,$54. Available at FredFlare.com

Give your daughter (or your little cousin or niece) this dainty ring as a token of your undying affection for her. Years from now, she'll still remember the gesture and smile.

Buying For The Hostess

Don't show up to the party empty-handed! After your hostess has opened up her home to you, stacked her bar with liquor, cooked for hours, and decorated her living room and dining room space, don't you owe her a little something?

Whether you arrive with a nice bottle of champagne for all to share or a large box containing some flatware she can use on a future occasion, your hostess will be overjoyed by your thoughtfulness.

Check out these gift ideas, perfect for those who like entertaining in style.

Kim Seybert Glossy Croco Barware; individual pieces range from $35-$185. Available at Saks.com

From martini shakers to ice buckets, designer Kim Seybert's barware collection is so luxurious, it will make very guest want to play bartender.

 
Mi Abuela Coquito, $21.99. Available at premium liquor stores. Visit MountCarmelWines.com

No Puerto Rican holiday meal or party is complete without some good coquito (the Puerto Rican version of eggnog, which features coconut cream and lots, lots, lots of rum,) but anyone who has ever attempted the feat knows making it at home is a painful ordeal. Now, you don't have to ask who is selling coquito in your neighborhood or kill yourself in the kitchen, gutting all those coconuts. Just buy some ready-to-serve Mi Abuela Coquito and you're good to go! Salud!
 
Mighty Leaf Tea Abaca Holiday Gift Box, $24.99. Visit MightyLeaf.comAfter dessert, most guests will indulge in a nice cup of coffee or tea.

Your hostess will appreciate this elegant box, which packs 30 biodegradable tea pouches in flavors like Organic Breakfast, Bombay Chai, Marrakesh Mint, Organic Hojicha Green Tea, Rainforest Mate and Ginger Twist (my favorite).

Stolichnaya elit Magnum Martini Case, $200. Available in select liquor stores. 

Between the brushed-metal case, the red interior, and the weapon-like shape of the 1.75L magnum bottle of Stolichnaya elit vodka, this looks like something out of Quantum of Solace.

Godiva Candy Cane Bark, $8.50 (cellophane bag) or $16.50 (holiday box). Available at Godiva boutiques nationwide. Visit Godiva.com for stores (or to buy the delicious Candy Cane Crunch, which has a similar taste).

This festive treat, which looks like it came straight out of Santa's Workshop in the North Pole, combines the taste of rich, dreamy chocolate with the sugary peppermint zest of crushed candy canes for a holly, jolly Christmas-time feel.

Krug Rosé Half Bottle, $150-$200. Available at high-end liquor stores. Visit WineAccess.com 

If you're headed to an intimate gathering, don't overdo it with a massive case of champagne. Instead, opt for a half bottle of Krug Rosé champagne and toast with you nearest and dearest.

IKEA "Dinera Dekal" 10-piece Dinnerware Sets, $19.99 each. Visit Ikea.com

These quaint, Asian-infused ceramic dinnerware sets include two plates, two set of chopsticks, two bowls, and two bowls with lids — perfect for serving some sushi rolls, dumplings, or dim sum.

Belvedere Vodka Gift Set, $65. Available at high-end liquor stores nationwide.

Vodka connoisseurs know Belvedere, which is distilled four times as opposed to the traditional three, goes down smoother than most other brands. So why not bring your A game when you show up to the party? Keep it nice and smooth with this classic gift set.

Crate & Barrel Genie Dessert Plates, $11 each. Visit CrateAndBarrel.com 

Every hostess obsesses over her dishes and glasses, so why not add something dazzling to her collection with these funky dessert plates from Crate & Barrel? She'll remember your kind gesture every time she lays a slice of pie on one of these!

IKEA "Senior" Fondue set, $49.99. Visit Ikea.com 

L'Objet Key Candle, $85. Visit OwenLawrence.com 

Under The Tree Spreader (Set of Four), $12.74. Visit Target.com

Who could resist a smile when looking at these adorable, hand-painted, ceramic-and-steel spreaders? They'll spread more than cheese on crackers — we're talking tons of holiday cheer.

Sexcapade

If you're like most females, you've got the countdown to the Sex and the City: The Movie up-and-poppin' but before you start calling Moviefone and logging on to Fandango for those precious movie tix, you may want to catch up on everything Carrie and company have encountered through the years. You don't want to miss a Manolo Blahnik step in the movie, do you? So revisit all the bad dates (Charlotte's bad kisser guy, Miranda's overeater, Samantha's funky spunk dude), kooky fashion trends (remember the hat Carrie wore when she had the scrunchie fight with Berger?), friendly spats (remember how mad Charlotte got when Samantha slept with her big bro?), hideous break-ups (post-it note, anyone?), and posh eateries and clubs.

In December, HBO finally released the complete series on DVD and if you didn't cop it then, there's no time like the present. The hefty DVD series is packaged in an encyclopedia-sized case that almost looks like a journal (clever, given that Carrie's a writer), bound in pink suede and featuring a sketch of the New York City skyline.

As an ode to the most abso-fuckin-lutely fabulous (exclamation point!) series, here are a few of my all-time favorite eps (just in case you want to fast-forward to them!):

Season One: "The Baby Shower"
The scene where all four gals load up into a car, only to look at each other and ask "who's driving?," is classic New Yorker style (hey, we cab it and train it). And Miranda's joke about understanding the witch in Hansel & Gretel is straight-up genius.

Season Two: "Take Me Out to the Ball Game"
Samantha at a Yankee's game comparing a half-inch portion of her hot dog to her man's penis? Too friggin' funny.

Season Two: "The Man, the Myth, The Viagra"
Since I'm a sappy gal, I always get misty-eyed over this ep, where the perennially cynical Miranda finally gets a flash of romanticism after meeting (and sleeping with) adorable bartender Steve. Oh, and Samantha's mini affair with the pruny old man? Hysterical.

Season Two: "La Douleur Exquise!"
This ep probably poses one of the most interesting questions asked in the show: when are we crossing the line between having faith in a troubled love affair and moving into sheer masochistic territory? The last scene kills me: something about Carrie sitting in the window sill, looking out into the street with the gloomy music playing in the background just pulls at my heart strings...

Season Three: "Don't Ask, Don't Tell"
Charlotte finally tests drives Trey's equipment the night before her lavish wedding, only to discover that his ship is at zero mast. Meanwhile, Carrie confesses her "Big" mistake to Aiden and breaks the rugged, loveable man's heart.. Damn, damn, damn..

Season Four: "All That Glitters.."
Charlotte and Trey pose as "the perfect couple" even as Trey prepares to move out...Makes you wonder what lies beneath every "happy couple" photo you've ever seen..

Season Four: "Change of A Dress"
Newly engaged to Aiden, Carrie wonders why she isn't dazzled about the prospect of walking down the aisle. After trying on some hideous wedding gowns with a seriously pregnant Miranda, Carrie discovers she might just be allergic to marriage..

Season Six: "The Ick Factor"
Miranda is the anti-bridezilla when it comes to her wedding with Steve while, in an unexpected twist, Samantha discovers she has breast cancer.

Season Six: "An American Girl in Paris (Parts One AND Two)"
From Carrie's lavish dresses in Paris to her disillusionment over Petrovski's self-centered attitude and her run-in with Big, the story line comes full circle. And that's not all. With Charlotte and Harry finally getting their baby, Samantha acknowledging her love for Smith, and Miranda tenderly caring after her senile mother-in-law, the series finale was moving, funny, sad, poignant, clever, hopeful and dazzling.

Phew! So those are some of my faves... What are yours?

Now available for $109.99. Visit Amazon.com